In 2026, bold love might look like a teenager stepping between two classmates before a fight starts, choosing peace over applause and compassion over chaos. It might look like a church member checking on a grieving neighbor, not because it is convenient, but because love calls us to move toward pain, not away from it.
The apostle Paul gives us a vision for that kind of love in Ephesians 3:16–19. He prays that believers would be strengthened by the Spirit, rooted in love, and able to grasp the vast love of Christ that goes beyond human understanding.
Bold love does not begin with personality, talent, or emotional intensity. It begins in the inner life, where God strengthens us by His Spirit.
Paul’s prayer reminds us that before love can flow through us, Christ must dwell in us. A heart filled with fear, bitterness, or pride cannot carry bold love well. But a heart rooted in Christ becomes a place where grace grows naturally.
Paul says believers are to be “rooted and established in love”. That means love is not a passing feeling or a Sunday-only virtue. It is the soil where Christian character grows.
Think of a tree in a storm. What keeps it standing is not how pretty its leaves are, but how deep its roots go. In the same way, Christians who love boldly are anchored in God’s love, and that anchoring gives them stability when life gets rough.
Paul describes Christ’s love as wide, long, high, and deep. That is a beautiful way of saying God’s love reaches every direction of our lives and every kind of brokenness we carry.
It is wide enough to include people we might overlook.
It is long enough to endure seasons of disappointment.
It is high enough to lift us out of shame.
It is deep enough to meet us in suffering.
Bold love is not shallow affection. It is a divine love that stretches farther than our comfort zone and is stronger than our fear.
This kind of love becomes real in ordinary moments. It shows up when a parent listens instead of lecturing, when a friend forgives instead of keeping score, and when a believer speaks truth without cruelty.
Bold love is not always dramatic. Sometimes it is quiet, steady, and unseen. But it always costs something, because it chooses the good of another person over the ease of self-protection.
Paul’s prayer in Ephesians 3 is still a prayer for the church today: that we would be strengthened, rooted, and filled with the fullness of God.
In a world that rewards division, Christians are called to love boldly. Not with a soft, vague sentiment, but with a courageous, Christ-shaped love that forgives, serves, reconciles, and stays faithful.
That kind of love changes homes, churches, neighborhoods, and nations.
It also makes Jesus visible.